I don't really want to put too much specific information here as it could potentially be quite outing really, particularly if they or other people at work use MN.
Anyway I'll give it my best shot to make sense without being too vague or giving too much away...
Have relatively recently started a new job, completely new sector for me (healthcare related). Have been there for a few months, had lots of training and feel comfortable and confident with 97% of what is expected of me.
Woman 1 is senior to me and has always come across as having a bit of an attitude towards me which I don't really see directed at the same level to other staff (she is a bit grouchy in general but she seems to save most of the 'tude for me). She generally never smiles at me, or looks at me when I talk to her. She's quite short in her manner. I feel confident that I have done nothing wrong on a personal level as have ramped up the niceness to her by being extra smiley and asking stuff about her (like what she did over the weekend etc). I've caught her a few times frowning at me or giving me evil looks. Anyway recently I've had some extra training on a thing which is much more technical than what I have thus far done. I should technically be supervised at all times when doing this, but whenever she is 'supervising' me she goes away and leaves me to it only to then come back and get annoyed about all things I have done 'wrong' . There have been two occasions now when I have been midway through the 'thing' and got stuck and called out to her to help me and she has essentially completely ignored me. She either does this or stands over me, sighing and tutting and muttering to herself about what I'm doing wrong. It really annoys me because I know that what I am doing is completely new to me and have been reassured by lots of other people at work that it takes time to get to grips with it and not beat myself up if it goes wrong the first few times.
I also find her quite patronising. She will explain things that I feel are either totally self explanatory and therefore she thinks she needs to tell me because she thinks I'm stupid or stuff that I have done no problem day in day out since I started with no problem.
Anyway, I have got pmt so am feeling a bit more sensitive to this kind of thing than usual but just wanted to see if IABU?
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To find this woman at work really irritating and how best to deal with her?
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OhGodNotAnotherUserName · 10/03/2016 19:43
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