So we always hear about people trying to find ways to say no to having holiday or overnight guests, but what about refusing an offer to stay at someones home. How do you refuse graciously?
I'm going on a summer holiday and someone in a travel group I'm in put me in contact with one of their friends, who offered to play tour guide which I did accept and we've been messaging back and forth.
She knows that I have not yet booked accommodation and made the very kind offer for my daughter and I to stay with her for free. Trouble is I don't want to stay with her. It is a very nice offer but I've never met her before and perhaps pre-child and ten years previously I may have taken her up on it, but with child I need a routine and be able to come and go as I please and lie in bed all day and not talk to anyone if I feel like it, plus with a two year old probably throwing tantrums here and there I will be on edge trying to over control her behaviour all time.
In short I just need my own space, but how do I tell her without sounding like an arsehole. What would you say?
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Lilylonglegs · 09/03/2016 21:02
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