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Dp promised to cook.. He came home with food for himself!

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Stressedmama16 Wed 09-Mar-16 19:30:40

I'm fully aware I'm being a pregnant hormonal bitch.

Iv had the flu all day and last night. Dp went to his mums house to sort out some of his old stuff. He texted me at 4 saying he doesn't want to be back late as he wants to cook tea. Fine, I didn't cook myself anything and sorted the kids out.

He walked in at 7 with some food for himself from his mum, made his own tea and than sat and ate it next to me. Before he even had said hello!!

I'm so upset. I'm hungry, poorly and pregnant.


So Iv stormed off upstairs and he hasn't even asked me what's wrong.

ephemeralfairy Wed 09-Mar-16 19:35:12

Err, YANBU!! how rude and inconsiderate of him. By him saying he wants to cook tea, you quite naturally assumed he meant for you as well, because you're pregnant and all.
He is either very selfish or very stupid or both. Can you order a pizza for yourself or something? and he can pay!

ephemeralfairy Wed 09-Mar-16 19:35:47

Or send him out to get you something!

GooodMythicalMorning Wed 09-Mar-16 19:39:13

yanbu at all! order takeaway for yourself and eat it in front of him!

ScarletForYa Wed 09-Mar-16 19:39:42

He must have a death wish!

That's Fecking outrageous!

Stressedmama16 Wed 09-Mar-16 19:41:11

I haven't got any money for a take away. Hes now laid on the sofa and not talking to me sad

Lightbulbon Wed 09-Mar-16 19:41:33


PenelopeChipShop Wed 09-Mar-16 19:41:53

Yanbu and I'm actually wondering why you aren't also annoyed that he had to be out all day leaving you ill and pregnant with the kids?! Sorting stuff out doesn't sound massively urgent.

Then again I am 37 weeks and also very hormonal and moody!!

balia Wed 09-Mar-16 19:42:00

Since when did 'cooking the tea' not include the DC's? Does he think they absorb nutrition from the air? Go back down and ask him when he is cooking tea.

GloGirl Wed 09-Mar-16 19:42:17

Stop being passive aggressive and tell him why you are stropping.

travellinghopefully12 Wed 09-Mar-16 19:42:28

that's outrageous, can you make him pay for take away or make something for you? Remind him he said he wanted to cook tea, and tell him you were waiting (and still are waiting) for yours.

LuisSuarezTeeth Wed 09-Mar-16 19:42:45

What a cock.

Ameliablue Wed 09-Mar-16 19:42:57

Do you normally eat together?

usual Wed 09-Mar-16 19:43:12

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RunRabbitRunRabbit Wed 09-Mar-16 19:44:25

Don't you talk to each other?

Scarydinosaurs Wed 09-Mar-16 19:45:32

No cash or no money?

If no cash can you order online?

Can you make yourself some peanut butter on toast?

Wagglebees Wed 09-Mar-16 19:45:43


ephemeralfairy Wed 09-Mar-16 19:46:51

Yeah, you need to have it out with him I think. He is being a dick.

NoCapes Wed 09-Mar-16 19:48:29

What the fuck?! hmm

bearleftmonkeyright Wed 09-Mar-16 19:50:56

Let me get this straight. You have cooked tea for the DC? Could he have assumed that you had eaten with them? You need to tell him. On the face of it this sounds absolutely shit but I am still wondering if there is a chance he has misunderstood.

FigMango1 Wed 09-Mar-16 19:51:06

Wow why are you even with him. More fool you. He's so selfish and is this how it works with you both? And his mother sending food for just himshock

Stressedmama16 Wed 09-Mar-16 19:51:40

We normally eat together in the evenings.

Iv told him how I feel and he's just ignoring me.

Iv put a pizza in for myself.

I have no energy what so ever. If he had asked I would have cooked tea, didn't realise he was coming home with food diarrhoea from his mums. 😡😪

Stressedmama16 Wed 09-Mar-16 19:52:22

He didn't know Iv cooked dc tea, he wouldn't have known.

UnderTheGreenwoodTree Wed 09-Mar-16 19:52:22

Whaaat? Is this for real?

I can't believe anyone would do that. I can't believe anyone would survive doing that to a pregnant woman grin

bearleftmonkeyright Wed 09-Mar-16 19:53:52

Well he's a selfish cock then. Sorry you are putting up with this. Glad you are eating something, you need to look after yourself.

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