So. I put on a huge four stone when pregnant with DD. I've lost two of it but now weight loss has stalled - and I feel shit.
I look like an inflated version of my old self and am covered in flab. DH doesn't find my new shape attractive, he's said as much,very clearly. He hasn't kissed me or shown any affection since the birth. And he's right - I'm very,very far from attractive.
The frustrating thing is, I'm working hard to try and get the excess weight off, but the scales haven't moved in almost three weeks. If anything, I've gained slightly. I'm doing MFP and exercising a fair amount too.
I know I should be enjoying my new baby and not worrying so much about this, but being fat and unfit is really getting me down and has massively knocked my confidence. I don't feel like me anymore. I used to be a runner, now I'm a lumbering wreck who can barely knock out 10K.
I was struggling confidence-wise anyway as I couldn't breastfeed this time round, which made me feel like an utter failure. I'd rather not be a fat failure too.
So. AIBU to be frustrated and unhappy in myself? And AIBU to ask for any advice as to why the weight might not be going more quickly?
Thank you.
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AIBU?
To be frustrated, and wonder why the baby weight isnt coming off more quickly?
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Runningupthathill82 · 09/03/2016 18:16
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