I've posted about this topic once before in general terms, but I would really appreciate some thoughts as I'm suffering sleepness nights over this! Basically, we live outside the UK - have done for years. Our DCs are 5 now and in school here, but DH has long talked about how he wants them to go to school in the UK and ultimately how he'd like us all to go back to the UK. I've always been more enthusiastic about staying here, but I understand his point. In January we agreed that for various reasons (DCs age, close relative's poor health, our long term happiness at being back etc) it was time to move back. We found an ideal place to live and a lovely school and decided to start a small business in the UK - involving something we both enjoy doing. The problem is that our current business is doing really well and it makes sense for us to keep it going until the new business starts earning a good return - So the problem is that in order to do that DH has to be here... so now it's me and DCs going to the UK - for what I guess will be at least a year, with DH visiting every few weeks... AIBU to worry about the impact of this on our relationship - and on the relationship between DH and our DCs?
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