My son (20) moved into his own place at 16, was kicked out of mainstream education due to violent behaviour to property, yet gained GCSEs.
Since GCSEs he has been to college twice and lasted a combined total of three days as he "didn't like the other people".
He's been on JSA since and slobs at home playing computer all day every day. His flat is a shit tip and he cannot be arsed to get a job, apprenticeship etc.
He's been sanctioned multiple times - the JC found him a job and he was sacked on second day for pissing about.
Me and my DH are supporting him financially, we are on very low income ourselves, and when sanctioned things get really tough.
AIBU to withdraw financial support? How do I "encourage" him to sort his life out? Tips please. He's never had a relationship, has no social life and never goes out.
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AIBU?
Do I withdraw DS financial support? No job and doesn't GAFF.
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crashboombanng · 07/03/2016 14:38
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