I don't know if IABU or just hurt.
My older 2 DC came home from their dads early today with chocolates and flowers and cooked a roast dinner for me which was really really lovely.
DS2 has a different dad and was also at his this weekend - he asked me for a tenner to buy me a Mother's Day gift.
Today he has come back late because he's been out for a meal with his dad and stepmum and brother (DS2 is 14 - his dad and I split up when I was pg as he was shagging his now step mum - I am over this clearly but did not want to drip feed).
He gave me a box of chocolates I don't really like and said he also gave his step mum a card and gift.
This really really pisses me off. Firstly because she is not his mum, I am, I gave birth to him and bar EOW I have brought him up alone. Secondly It seems I have also bought her a fucking gift (my chocolates had the price tag on they were a fiver).
I feel really pissed off and unappreciated by his dad that he can't be arsed to organise something with DS2.
I am a step mum myself and we sent her flowers and I would think it really really weird and inappropriate if my step daughters gave me a Mother's Day card - because I am not their mother and there is no vacancy to fill here.
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Mother's Day cards for Step-mums
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