I miscarried a year ago. I know that the baby I lost was just a clump of cells, but to me it was a life. I had started looking into double pushchairs, maternity allowances, and life with a second etc. Then it was gone.
I'm fortunate in that I got pregnant again and now have DC2 (or 3?) who is 6 weeks old.
I had come to terms with the loss until tonight when I realised that DP hadn't mentioned the miscarriage to any of his family. That baby, however small, happened.
It came up in conversation with his sister, who is planning on TTC. It took all of 3 seconds before the conversation changed direction in that 'miscarriage is uncomfortable to talk about' way.
I know I am very lucky to have two DCs; I'm just sad that my DC2 isn't acknowledged.
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AIBU to remember my miscarried baby, even though no-one else does?
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Juniper4004 · 06/03/2016 01:04
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