Ok, so my first AIBU and it's a genuine question.
Last night was a special occasion so DH and I managed a very rare night out together, getting a babysitter in for DD (3).
We went to the cinema to see Zoolander2 (expecting a flurry of responses saying IABU for watching that film, I can take that ).
The film started at 9pm, finishing around 11.15. We settled down in our seat in a mostly empty theatre (maybe 5 couples) when an entire class (30+) of youngish teenage boys (all wearing their school's banded tops) came in. I freely admit that my heart sank.
They initially sat very close to us, filling the back half of the cinema on one side. They were accompanied by 3/4 teacher type figures. So DH and I quietly got up and moved across to the other side of the cinema to give ourselves some space from the general noise and chattering of a large group. Then they spread out in smaller groups across the entire upper half of the cinema, meaning we couldn't move again unless we sat at the front row and had a much poorer view.
The boys were disruptive throughout. They were noisy, loudly talking amongst themselves (shouting in louder bits of the film), shouting out at the film, messing around, shoving seat backs, getting up and down, at one point 5 of them in the row directly behind us got up, walked down the stairs, across the screen, then returned 5 mins later, shoving seat backs as they did so (they didn't leave so presumably weren't going to the toilet).
I asked them politely and then told them slightly less politely to be quiet multiple times. The teachers/supervisors were all sat together at the opposite side of the theatre to us.
I didn't complain to cinema staff for two reasons; one their behaviour was intermittent, every time I asked them to be quiet they would for 10 mins or so then the noise and messing around would slowly ramp up again. And two was that I didn't want to miss any more of the film we had paid £20 to see.
So, AIBU to think that when going to the cinema at 9pm outside school holidays, it's not unreasonable to expect it to be free of school trips? And secondly AIBU to think that if someone has taken the decision to bring a school trip to the cinema at 9pm, the teachers should bloody well supervise their charges, sit within the groups of kids and make sure they know what appropriate behaviour in a public place is?
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School trip to the cinema, 9pm Friday night
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Cheby · 05/03/2016 11:16
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