This is a scenario where I know I'm being stupid, but I need people to tell me that and give me a reality check.
I'm falling for a bloke I should stay miles away from.
- He just broke up with his gf of two years
- He told me he liked me when he was still with his gf, but at the time I said no because I wasn't sure how I felt and we worked together in the same department (we don't anymore)
- He's stingy to obsessiveness and I'm not. He never goes out, never spends on hobbies, never eats out. I'd go mad with that.
- He wants children and I don't. I'd adopt maybe, but he says he'd never love a child he hadn't created.
- We have a very complicated friendship already.
To make matters even worse, I haven't shagged anyone in five years (long story) and I'm getting slightly desperate. So I can't even tell if it's my hormones talking or I genuinely love him.
I know I'd be miserable without him in my life as a friend, but I also think we'd make each other miserable.
I'm sick of feeling this way!