I'm a new mum. I nearly died giving birth to our 4 and a half month old son. I spent the first three months of his life in and out of hospital for long stays in intensive care and HDU having four operations including an emergency hysterectomy. DP went back to work for the first time four weeks ago and since then I've been a full time stay at home mum. Building a relationship with my baby and having confidence in myself as a mum has been a struggle but I'm getting there. I've just started to leave what's happened behing me and really enjoy being with my child. Yesterday I was discharged from my consultant psychiastrist because I no longer have symptoms of depression or trauma.
DP openly admits he's not thought about mother's day, despite the fact that I've reminded him a few times in the last week or so. I've booked a table for us to go for lunch.
My mum died a few years ago so I have nothing to celebrate there.
Am I being unreasonable to think that I've been through the mill the last few months, fought hard to come out the other side and am doing well all things considered; and that this is something worth celebrating?
Feeling a bit dejected and wondering if I'm making a mountain out of a molehill...
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To think DP should make some effort for mother's day?
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hearthattack · 02/03/2016 19:47
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