Holy hell, need a hand with the parental guilt here please.
We run our own business and work from an office at home. I work four days, which is usually more than full-time hours given the stuff in the evenings, and DH works five. Business is booming, which is great but we're not quite ready to take on someone and move to premises though this is the next step in the hopefully not-too-distant future so the pressure is pretty high.
We have two little ones: DD1 is 5 and in her first year of school, while DD2 starts school in Sept. Currently, DD1 comes home every day straight after school and we juggle her between us two days a week and my DM comes over and sits with her two days a week (with the other DD too as she finishes pre-school earlier on those days). On my day off, I'm with DD2, so DD1 just comes home as usual.
As the business is getting busier, it's getting really tough to have her at home from 3, when really we should be still working until around 5. We tried an after-school club a handful of times and she didn't like it and said she'd prefer to come home, which I was fine with as the last thing I want to do is send her somewhere she's unhappy. Plus, my vision of working for ourselves was that we did it around the kids. However, the practicalities of a growing business means that it's no longer than simple. My stress levels are going through the roof when I'm trying to deal with her and her needs - food, drink, colouring-in book, a cuddle - and those of a client.
She's adamant that she doesn't want to do the after-school club for those two days, but we're struggling to cope. Am I being horrific in deciding that this is the best thing for us all, or do I put up and shut up and keep on juggling. At this rate I'll be in a bloody circus.
All thoughts welcome...
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DreamingOfADifferentMe · 02/03/2016 18:39
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