I am at the very start of a career, been in the job about a year. It's hard to get into, requires a degree and professional registration which I've not yet got.
However I'm also 9 months into my 12 month maternity leave.
Me and my line manager couldn't see eye to eye on agreeing part time hours at first but the head of department has now agreed for me to work 6 hours a day for 4 days, with a 30 min lunch break in the middle. My mum is going to have the baby for me. She lives 15 mins from me, about 20 mins from my work. She is disabled and can't work herself but offered very kindly to have the baby for me while I work these part time hours.
I've been worrying that she's not up to having the baby for 7-7.5 hours 4 days a week. She's having a lot of pain with her illness and is in A and E today as she requires urgent help today. I feel it's going to be too much for her and I don't know what to do.
financially me and dh can manage without my wage but only just. The main worry is that I haven't done my professional registration. It's all ready to be assessed but my line manager refused to have it assessed while I was pregnant (he's a horrendous sexist). I asked the dept head and he said that we can have it done by 6 weeks from my return to work.
I am in turmoil. My poor mum insists she'll be ok with DS but I'm not convinced. My dh says it'll be ok either way but I'm worried we could struggle financially.
Aibu to ask your advice on the matter? Shall I give my job up? Shall I get registered than hand in my notice? Shall I just carry on?
thank you.
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ParisGellar · 02/03/2016 10:23
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