My dad is dying. He has cancer and only has a few weeks left.
I haven't had a good relationship with him, and haven't really spoken to him since I was a teenager. He was quite abusive to the whole family when I was growing up. Although I now bear him no malice, I've only said a few words to him at birthdays/Christmas since I've known he was ill, and don't have any kind of relationship with him so to speak.
Yesterday, my mum asked if I wanted to go and see him to say goodbye and I said no, I don't have anything to say to him.
I know if I do go, it will feel very awkward and I just wont know what to say. Im terrified I'll become upset as I feel too embarrassed to show any kind of emotion in front of him. As far as I know, he hasn't asked to see me or anyone else, he just wants to be on his own.
AIBU not to go and see him? Will I later regret it?
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AIBU not to visit my dying father
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goldfinch01 · 02/03/2016 08:29
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