Exp is up to all his old tricks again
Very VERY long story cut short.... Exp quit job to avoid being caught up with CMS. He is wealthy, and refuses to pay out of spite ( not entirely sure why, he cheated on me, he ended the relationship with me when I was six months pregnant)
So we had been to court as exp decided it wasn't his responsibility to return DS after contact each wkend, so just wouldn't return him! and refused to give me any weekend time with DS as he thought DS should be with him every weekend and I was to have no quality time with DS
I had a thread on here a few weeks ago as after court and mediation, he started paying cm again , but once it was all over and he had no one to answer to, he stopped. It makes a huge difference to me financially and I struggle without it. So he successfully blackmailed me into travelling up again to collect DS when he has contact, I hated myself for it at the time, but it was that or get no cm, and i chose to get cm and give up my time to travel to collect despite his lawyer calling him out on it and saying t was HIS responsibility (45 min drive each way)
So I have met a new partner, and I'm very happy. Exp has gotten really asrsey with me lately and has now stopped paying CM. We're also off on holiday in a few days for 10 nights. After being hounded by exp for extra time with DS as I'm going on holiday, I had offered to give up my weekend with DS and said he could have him tonight, for two nights...but now he's not paying CM. I definitely can't afford the petrol to travel up and down, and know for a FACT that exp will just refuse to return him to me like he has done before so many times even last week when I was really sick, I had a chest and viral infection, he still refused to return him to me as it was 'my' turn to travel.
Aibu to say no returning him then no contact and get advice again from my lawyer? I hate this he doesn't do things by half though, so as he won't see him now for a few weeks he'll probably try to stop me going on holiday
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Butwhyohwhy · 27/02/2016 11:49
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