Apologies to anybody who is not in the financial position to be about to buy a house and would like to be. I do realise that I am fortunate in this regard, have been very skint in the past and do realise the circumstances many people are in.
However, I am on the verge of buying a house with DH. He has previously owned his own house but we have rented for the past few years, partly because we couldn't afford to buy and partly because we moved areas several times due to work. We now have a reasonable deposit saved, are earning decent salaries and in the area we are living in can buy a fairly decent house based on the mortgage we can get. Our children are in very good local schools.
BUT- I am terrified. I have got well into my 30s without ever owning my own home. It feels like such a massive financial commitment. It will mean clearing out our entire savings, which have taken years to accumulate, overnight. It means committing ourselves to this area for a substantial amount of time. Am I mad to feel this way? I was much less nervous about other major commitments like getting married and having children, I'm not sure what is wrong with me. Can someone reassure me that these kinds of nerves are normal? It seems like most people are excited and really pleased to be on the verge of buying their own home and I feel nothing but anxiety and dread.
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Willow108 · 27/02/2016 10:51
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