I'm so upset tonight, but I'm not sure if I have grounds. I'm anorexic. Was very much recovering but have had a massive setback recently. I've also recently finished treatment for cancer. I've had over 8 surgeries, it hasn't been easy.
Tonight I made dinner for the kids, which (shamefully) included oven chips. Once I'd dealt them out there were about 6-9 chips left. For some bizarre reason I actually ate two of them, which made me feel disgusting, and ashamed, but I enjoyed the taste. Fast forward three minutes and DH got really pissed off with me. Apparently he said he was going to have the leftover chips in a butty but I hadn't left him enough, and had "spoiled" his butty. Even though his dinner was in the oven and the butty would only have been a 'starter'.
He made me feel really shit for eating at all. I honestly didn't hear him say he wanted those chips for w butty and certainly wouldn't have touched them if I knew he wanted them. In fact I generally wouldn't have eaten them at all. I just feel he could have been more sensitive given my issues, and the fact that he's been aware of them for 14+ years.
Or am I being over sensitive? I honestly don't know.
Can't believe this has happened as we are generally very happy but he just can't understand why this has upset me so much. I feel like a disgusting pig.
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FuckingAnxietyAndCitalopram · 21/02/2016 08:16
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