I have DD, 15 months and DSD 8 years. Since i was pregnant i have made it clear i feel its really important to have a savings account for any children. DSD had one when younger but her mum emptied it. I have also made it clear to DH that if he wishes to set DSD up a bank account that can pnly be asked once she is 18, like DDs, i will happily put in the same monthly amounts as would my parents to both girls. It was made obvious that ehilst i will happily contribute i am not putting in the leg work to set it up.
Well he never bothered so myself and my parents have been paying in x amount whilst DSD has not got an account and thus no savings. The first annual statement has just come through and its caused an almighty row that DD will have some money whilst DSD nothing. I dont see this as my fault or really my problem to fix, she had one that was emptied and he never botbered to set one up for me to pay into. So now of course im big nasty stepmok who favours DD...
Have i really done something that bad?? I feel like he is responsible and its hisfault:(
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Beth2511 · 19/02/2016 20:18
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