I work 3 nights a week 8-7 and have 3 dcs aged 11, 8 and 5. During term time this works fine with me sleeping during school time and picking them up at 3 but the holidays aren't going so well. I can grab a bit of sleep here and there but it's not fair to leave them to keep themselves amused for hours on end plus they just argue anyway. My job is very physically demanding and I'm finding it so hard to cope.
This week I have had 3hours sleep over the last two days and I feel awful I'm snappy with the children and just feel sick.
So I've put an idea to dp he works days and gets two random days off a week (usually not the weekend) my thought was to see if he could arrange those two days to correspond with the ones I need to sleep. It would only be during holiday time and I can't see many of his colleagues being upset as it would mean they where more likely to get weekends off. Anyway I just asked if he could mention it and see what they say.
Maybe it's me being over tired but I felt like he thought I was being a bit out of order for suggesting this. I've told him we have to do something and that if its not that i will have to sort some sort of childcare as its not fair on anyone. I'm not sure if we could actually afford childcare but I've got to do something.
So my question is does this sound like a stupid idea?
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To ask him to change his days off?
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fastingmum123 · 19/02/2016 13:15
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