I don't mean being polite and civil to someone if you don't like them, but I hate it when people say things about someone and then act like they are best mates with them at other times.
There is a mum who has a DD at my DD's school who is, quite frankly awful. She is very pushy, very rude (prides herself on being honest and speaking her mind), quite nasty at times, and does things like phones other parents if their child falls out with her child. I do not like this woman at all and avoid her. I am coolly polite if I see her but do not engage with her in any conversations, am not FB friends with her and do not have anything to do with her socially.
Lots of other mums at the school openly bitch about her all the time and say that they dislike her (I do not start these conversations with them btw, they openly say these things with no prompting, and I do not bitch about her myself). They constantly say about how pushy she is, about how she has phoned them as their DD said something that upset her DD, and that she is rude and says nasty things.
However, they ALL are extremely friendly with/to her despite saying these things behind her back.
For example, they are all Facebook friends with her. This week so far three different school mums have tagged this woman in FB statuses saying they've had a 'lovely catch up' with her. Another mum who bitches about her all the time meets her every Thursday night and goes to the gym with her. This woman is always invited to everything; nights out, meet ups with the kids, everything. She was out at the weekend at another mum's birthday meal (this mum also moans about her).
The fact that so many of the other mums are being two faced is really putting me off them all, despite the fact that they are nice to me (to my face, at least!) and all seem lovely. I just don't think that being two-faced is a particularly nice trait to have.
AIBU to really dislike this kind of behaviour?
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BlackberryGrumble · 17/02/2016 16:14
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