AIMU? My gran for the past couple of months has been a real handful and I am not sure what to do about it!
For the past couple of months my gran thinks if she clicks her fingers she gets what she wants straight away, I have been to the supermarket 5 times in the past three days for her because she has demanded things for the shop! I WAS IN THE PROCESS OF UNPACKING HER SHOPPING AS SHE DEMADED ME TO GO BACK AS SHE CHANGED HER MIND. She also phones up at the most stupid hours demanding me to take her places, she can drive she just chooses not to and she is capable.
She has also DEMANDED me to clean her house saying its " my duty" problem is I am a full time dad / carer to my who has autism and a range of other disablities. The ONLY time I have to clean her house is when my son is in bed ( not suitable for her as she will miss her to programs!) and on a Saturday morning ( again not suitable as she will miss her cooking shows!) I literally have no other time in the week to do it! Every other moment of the day is taken up by my son and making sure all of his needs are met! WHAT CAN I DO?!
Our cousin has said she would do the cleaning her for but my gran said no as its His duty and points to me! I have explained to her it's give and take and she needs to see it from my side but she doesn't listen.
Even when I help her she doesn't even say Thankyou or ask if I can do something for her, she demands it and talks to me like riubbish.
I know I should be grateful she is here and I really am however I am already exhausted mentally and physically due to my son needing care 24/7 and I am a single parent! When I go out I have to take my son and it's a challenge.
She can drive and she is capable of doing all of these things it's just like she feels she doesn't need to because she knows she will click her fingers and il do it!
What should I do?! I honestly do t know how much more I can take :,(
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CraigN2016 · 14/02/2016 13:18
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