Sorry, it's a MIL thread. Honestly though, the constant undermining is really starting to grate.
Don't get me wrong, she's lovely, but why does she have to undermine ALL. THE. TIME?
This week alone we've had:
brought some huge doughnuts over twenty minutes before dinner so I said, "oh, lovely, dd can have one after dinner."
Ten minutes later she says loudly to dd "ooh, those doughnuts are lovely, lovely doughnuts! Do you want one?"
Then when I say "as I said, dinner's ready in ten minutes so can have one for dessert."
So then I look like the bad guy and dd's thinking "well, Nanny said I could have one."
Also, every single shop we go in, whether it be a supermarket or a whatever, all dd has to do is look at something and she buys it for her. Every. Single. Shop. Which sounds lovely, but it's really not when dd expects something every time we go out.
(She's only little, 6.)
If I say, "no not today, you've already bought her her magazines and sweets this week, we can get something next time", she'll say "I can't buy her anything, can I. I'll buy her something I want."
Arrrgh. AIBU? Should I let it slide?! It is ALL THE TIME though.
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MIL undermining driving me insane
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DiscoGlitter · 12/02/2016 16:58
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