DSD had her 16th birthday party at our house. The rules were - no drugs, smoking or spirits, with DSD and her friends to help clear up. DH stayed in the house, I went away for the night with our toddler.
I come back the next day, everything's cleaned up (mostly by DH), DSD is cleaning up after one of her friends who was sick and also spilt beer on her sister's mattress (they aren't supposed to take food/drink upstairs but regularly do). I asked DH what the consequence was going to be for DSD (other than swapping mattresses with her sister and cleaning up), he said it's done, what else is he supposed to do.
A couple of days later I find a nos canister. I ask DH about it, he says yes, he found them doing nos in the house so shoo'ed them outside. He also caught someone drinking spirits, and that he closed the party down early (but 4 hrs after the nos and spirits discovery and only because of the noise). He doesn't think there is anything more to be said to DSD as 'no one died or ended up in hospital'. And 'yes, talk to DSD about the nos'. Er no, how about you do that? I know that Nos isn't the end of the world but AIBU to be cross with DH? It could have been the toddler that found the nos canister, and I doubt the other parents are so chilled about the nos/drinking. Am I just being a bit old and stuffy about this? I know kids push boundaries, I'm not surprised by their behaviour, but I expect DH to be less dismissive.
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to have wanted DH to have not been so dismissive
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MoreSpudsPlease · 02/02/2016 15:50
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