Have been separated 18 months and he finally has a flat after months of sofa surfing. He wants our sofa because I recently bought a new one, but I did that because I wanted two. The old one fits the colour scheme of the sitting room- the whole room has been planned around it really.
However, he has a very low income and has had nothing from me yet. He left after his infidelity and insisted he wanted nothing. We are now in mediation and I have said no to the sofa til that is sorted. If he has nothing he can have it and if not he can buy one from his settlement.
However, last night he involved the DC, saying "mummy won't let me have a sofa, you'll have to sit on the floor when you come round" etc I'm scared it will turn them against me. I asked him to leave when he started that and he just refused, laughing. I didn't want it to escalate so left it, but what a bad thing for the DC to see.
I'm also afraid he'll take it while I'm at work. Aibu not to give it at this point?
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To not let stbex have the sofa?
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thinkingmakesitso · 28/01/2016 06:16
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