My OH is not particularly 'hands on' with out LOs (12 and 6). He never really plays with them, might play the odd game here & there, does a bit of reading with DD2 and reads her a bedtime story sometimes. He does chat with them alot though and is interested in what they've been doing at school etc. This gets my goat however as it's usually down to me to think of things to do with them, think of places to go etc, although he will come along too. He tends to sit around on the sofa rather than engage with them, or if he does, it's on his terms. However, he is very hard working, very generous (pays all the bills plus most other stuff) and I trust him 100%. Should I focus on what he does well and stop giving him a hard time about what he doesn't do? I can't actually remember either of my parents playing with me much but I always felt loved
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AIBU to focus on what he doesn't do rather than what he does do?
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Joolsy · 27/01/2016 15:06
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