Hello everyone,
I have been with my fiancé for 7yrs, we rent at the moment and split bills 50/50.
We are aiming to buy a house this summer.
We talked earlier and sort of made rough plans with regards to paying the mortgage. The mortgage will possibly be ÂŁ1400 PCM, our rent is ÂŁ575.
I earn ÂŁ4/5000 a month, I'm self employed and my earnings are continually increasing each year. My partner earns ÂŁ1900 a month, not likely to increase much, he gets a ÂŁ6k bonus each year.
My AIBU is, I'm concerned about contributing so much more and the implications should we separate. We sort of said I would pay ÂŁ900, him ÂŁ500, split the rest of the bills.
Normally I wouldn't car but we have been 50/50 from the start at his insistence, when he was earning ÂŁ1900 and I was at Uni and starting my business and had hardly any money due to redundancy. I'm a bit bitter about it still, and also worried I'm not protecting myself as much as I should. I've found him to be a little grabby in the past if he can get away with it, like forgetting to send me half shopping money until I remind him. He also spends a lot on stuff for himself, so isn't poor at all.
Also, he is an only child and will inherit his mums house one day, whereas my parents have messed things up and won't have anything to pass down. I feel like it would be unfair if I paid nearly twice as much on the house and then say he got an inheritance and didn't put it towards the house?
Can anyone help? Sorry it's long.
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Violenza · 26/01/2016 00:07
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