Unsure if I am being unreadable to even think of the following so needing a general consensus
Me and dp are getting married later this year, we can go on holiday the week after.
Here's our dilemma we have 2 children 2 with severe sn and will be in school, we have a family member who has agreed to watch both. Our ds is used to staying overnight there.
We've never left dd she's still bf and will be at the time although will be over 1 year.
Here's our options what would you choose, Take dd leaving ds so he doesn't miss school or is this unfair to exclude him. Taking him would mean he would struggle, we only normally go on holiday when we have a big group going away.
Or thank our family member for offering to watch them but stay at home.