I have tried to work this out in my head for several months now but it's still bugging me.
After 7 years of living in Australia our family moved back to the UK.
Our move there was never meant to be permanent, more an opportunity arose and we took it.
Our mothers were pretty vile to us in the lead up to our departure but I tried to understand their feelings.
On my arrival back my son and I stayed with my mother and step father for a few weeks until my husband joined us. We then went to stay with sil while our house sale was going through.
Those weeks at my mothers were horrendous. She said "well I won't be able to go to Singapore now you're back". It seems that on her next trip out she was planning a stop over there. Then proceeded to tell me I "was mad to come back". Basically, in a nutshell, I feel like I was the source of free holidays and now I just sh*t on her dreams of a retirement in Oz.
I feel sad and angry at her. After we left her place she literally didn't call once, not even to see how son got on at new school. She refused our invitation to Christmas dinner. We barely speak at all now and when we do it is very strained. The worse feeling is I'm not sure I even want to try and sort anything out, all I really want to do is yell at her for being so nasty and ask why?
Now our family have flown the nest, we have 1 teenage son, I don't have to visit with the grandchildren etc any more and I'm not sure we even have anything in common any more. How hard is it to say 'welcome home'
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Pominoz1 · 21/01/2016 17:33
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