My dad is a lovely grandpa to my 16month son. We visit every week and he plays, cuddles and chases. His wife of 20 years however sits on her arse barely glancing his way other than to say "don't let him touch that" "he can't play with that". She seemed quite keen when I was pregnant, asking if she could be called grandma (no problem at all with me) but once he arrived the mood turned and she went months without seeing him due to popping out to the shops.
I'm actually getting angry about this now. If I see a child at a bus stop I will smile and engage, this is her husband's only grandson and she can't bear to acknowledge him. When I was pregnant they displayed a scan photo but that's gone and there's only pictures of her family up. She has two grandkids,she's always been critical of their behaviour but at least they made it into photo frames.
I'm at the point where I don't want to visit their house. I don't want my little boy to be exposed to this cold attitude.I'd rather meet in a cafe or something.
Do I just tell my dad that? Or should I put up for his sake and hope she always "pops to the shops"? Visiting tomorrow and can't sleep cos upset by this.
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Hubnut · 17/01/2016 22:03
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