DSD has just got her first job close to where we live and as she has not yet sorted out somewhere to live she is staying with us. We are delighted to have her and she is welcome to stay as long as she likes.
Both last weekend and this weekend her boyfriend has stayed here. He is a perfectly nice chap although I did have to ask DH to ask him to get dressed when it appeared that he was planning to join us for lunch in pyjama bottoms and a t-shirt.
Anyway it turns out that the boyfriend is also flat hunting before starting a new job (separately from DSD) and it appears that he expects to stay here for the week in order to do so.
AIBU to say he can stay tonight but that I do not expect him to be here all week or hanging around my house when DSD is out at work all day.
They are both recent graduates (so early 20s) and I just don't see it as my responsibility to house an adult that I barely know and who hasn't even had the courtesy to ask either directly or through DSD.
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AIBU to not let DSD's boyfriend stay all week?
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ImNotChangingMyUsernameAgain · 17/01/2016 21:44
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