I have two DC and live ten mins away from dmand dad. I see her most weeks and phone 2/3 times a week or more.
My brother has three DC and is married lives 20mins away. He sees them every 6-8 weeks, on the whole rarely rings. He is crap which is fine but my fm won't ever pull him up on it.
Yesterday I phone dm and suggested we went bowling together me, DC and my parents. I suggested the time but mum said "oh your DB might pop in. We have not seen him for 4 weeks." He had not rung to say this might happen btw.
So I agree to try and get an early slot but it was fully booked so I phone mum and say we will pop over anyway for a visit.
Anyway did my DB ring? Did he arrive? NO. So once again I'm sidelined and my DC for a non show which wasnt even arranged in the first place.
This is happening all the time. It happened over Xmas plans too
Ive got to the point now where I want to point out that though I understand she wants to see him and his kids she is treating me and my family like second best.
I'm the reliable one but get kicked in the teeth all the time.
How can I approach this?
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Madeyemoodysmum · 17/01/2016 18:39
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