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to not know how to deal with this colleague?

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LieslVonTrap Wed 06-Jan-16 19:04:19

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FlatOnTheHill Wed 06-Jan-16 19:14:08

What did the colleague do/say that was so bad and offensive?
Are you happy to let it go? As she has been spoken too and is now by the sounds of it trying to make amends and moving forward.
Why dont you be professional and adult and do the same?
Or was she that bad whatever she said/did is unforgivable.

M00nUnit Wed 06-Jan-16 19:17:38

If she's being nice to you now then that sounds like a good result to me!

LieslVonTrap Wed 06-Jan-16 19:22:13

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sonjadog Wed 06-Jan-16 19:22:46

Surely it is good thing that she is being nice to you? Was that not the result you wanted?!

Just be pleasant in tone. Treat her like any other colleague.

LieslVonTrap Wed 06-Jan-16 19:25:20

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FlatOnTheHill Wed 06-Jan-16 19:26:18

Blimey she sounds a right bastard.
Ok, keep it cool and polite. That is all you can do. You want this job at the end of the year. I know its hard and you prob dont even want to look at the woman but you dont want to come across as stropping off. Although you are within your rights to feel that way!
So just keep it cool, pleasant and polite...she will be gone soon.

LieslVonTrap Wed 06-Jan-16 19:27:36

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sonjadog Wed 06-Jan-16 19:29:23

She'll be gone in some weeks. Just stick a smile on and get on with it. Be pleasant but busy. Let go of the past.

PlopTheBarn0wl Wed 06-Jan-16 19:45:25

Watch your back. She may be trying to catch you out and then go whining to management saying she's been nothing but nice and you were rude/short etc with her.

Be pleasant but not much more. Make sure you are friendly to others too so if she says you are unfriendly etc then her view is the exception.

She sounds awful.

miakulpa Wed 06-Jan-16 20:58:33

She sounds very weird! Yes watch yourself, I'd be pleasant but keep a bit of distance if you can.

Shakey15000 Wed 06-Jan-16 21:03:13

It's such a hard balance isn't it?? I had the same in so far as, my colleague was a nasty cow but I had to try and be cool/professional/ignore as I relied on her to get to work (too convoluted to get into!) Thankfully I resigned. I have a general rule not to be friends on FB with any work colleagues. But after I left, I requested a few of them to stay in contact. But not her. It pleases me in an admitted childish way that she will be aware of this smile

LieslVonTrap Wed 06-Jan-16 21:34:45

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