I really didn't want to start the new year off so negatively but...
In a nutshell, my husband is just so grumpy. Like a moody, sulky teenager. He didn't used to be, there's no way I would have married him tbh, but since DS1 arrived 7 months ago it seems to be his default setting.
It's not all day but usually first thing in the morning and definitely when he wakes in the night. Right now it's really dragging me down and I don't know how to approach the subject without it turning into an argument. I also feel like I do almost everything. The other day I was feeding DS in his highchair and I turned round and H was playing chess on his phone. He 'forgets' to empty the dishwasher when I'm putting him to bed every night and moans that he doesn't get an opportunity to play the PlayStation any more. He'll be 40 next year.
Last night we were in bed for 10:30 (DS from 7pm). He woke at 4am for a feed and took quite a long time to settle. Probably an hour. And then woke up again just before 7am and DH was huffing and puffing his head off that he didn't sleep in longer. I got up with him and told him to go back to bed and hopefully he wakes up in a better mood but I actually don't think 7am is an unreasonable time for a baby to get up!
AIBU to be actually considering LTB if he doesn't grow up???
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KatySparkles · 01/01/2016 07:56
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