All right, this is just a small thing but it's sort of the whole straw = camels back thing so bear with me.
I've had some expensive toiletries bought me for Christmas. I'm not a special snowflake but I have extremely sensitive skin and there is only one brand that fits in with my animal testing ethos AND doesn't leave me looking like a creature from Hellraiser.
My sister bought me a bottle of said favourite shower gel and some other bits for Christmas.
I had a lovely bath about an hour ago and then sd jumped in and ran one after me.
As a bit of background Sd knows she can ask me for anything she needs/wants and I've always given it to her. She is 13.
I've just been in the bathroom and my brand new, barely used by me shower gel has gone, all gone. It was filled with some water and shook to make it look full.
This upset me a) it was a Christmas present barely used b) Why didn't she ask me to use some c) why on earth use an ENTIRE bottle then fill it up with water to trick me!
If it had been Dd I would have gone mad but because it's dsd I have to walk on a tightrope.
I was going to say something along the lines of 'Dsd sweetie why didnt you ask to use my stuff, and why did you use a whole bottle'.
However upon mentioning I was a bit upset to DH when he came upstairs it transpires I am just being an evil stepmother. Apparently she wouldn't have known it was mine (despite it being in my cupboard and me being the only person ever in the house that uses said clearly different brand) and it's totally normal to use an entire bottle of shower gel.
I've just been made to feel out of order if I say anything.
Like I would have been out of order to mention to her to stop leaving chewing gum stuck everywhere around the house where toddler DD can get it.
Like I would have been out of order to say anything to her about the awful things she says to me sometimes when we are alone.
I have to ignore her sneakily pinching dd because I've been made to feel I can't say fucking anything.
I'm trying, I really am. Every time I start to feel like things are going ok she does something sneaky like this that makes me wonder whether it's all in my head. Things dd wouldn't get away with I feel I can't say to her or DH and Mil think I'm evil for wanting to.
I even borrowed money from my mum to help get her a ps4 this year.
Most of the time she's lovely, it's just these little things that keep happening.
Am I a step monster?
Not the ow by the way. Met DH years after he was left by sd's mum.
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To be pissed off with stepdaughter, DH thinks so.
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Munchkins1316 · 31/12/2015 19:05
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