If you have people round for a big meal, would you expect to do some actual cooking i.e. bake or roast something, do veg prep etc etc?
I didn't see my family over Christmas, but went to see relatives for a 'big' meal yesterday. I brought prosecco and a large chunk of the Xmas cake I made.
The host couple provided a lot of Waitrose-type things. A pate for starters, and a quiche for main course. Cream doughnuts and carrot cake slices for desert.
There had been plenty of effort when it came to shopping, table-setting etc I realised that I had been harbouring an expectation that some actual cooking would have taken place.
(Cooking equals generosity/love? Do other people think along these lines?)
Also no exchange of gifts - other than my bringing bottlle plus cake - as the couple don't 'do' presents.
When the host couple had last come to me it was more of a just passing through visit, but I'd done a home-made soup (from stock I'd done myself) and home-made desserts.
However, I enjoy cooking. Not everyone does.
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Home cooking. Or lack of. Post Christmas meal.
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MarianneSolong · 29/12/2015 10:52
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