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To not know what to do?

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RockAndHardPlace49 Mon 28-Dec-15 18:16:32

Met someone recently, and like him. Not sure what's going to happen right now which is fair enough as big changes in both our lives right now.

If we see each other again, we can only see each other two or three more times until March (once a month or so). He is then going away for three months with work.

After this point Il be living in the same place as him (we currently live far away from each other) so can see if we want to take things further.

Do you think it's worth pursuing things? Anyone started things slowly in similar circumstances? I'm scared of getting hurt!

wowfudge Mon 28-Dec-15 18:27:05

Well won't you regret not even having given it go more than trying and it not working out? As long as moving isn't just to be near someone you just won't see much, where's the problem. Plus if it doesn't work out, you might meet someone else in the new place.

RockAndHardPlace49 Mon 28-Dec-15 18:29:23

Yeah okay, thanks, you're right. I will regret not starting things more I think

It might not even work out so I will take it slow and see what happens smile

19lottie82 Mon 28-Dec-15 18:29:48

Just go with the flow, if you like him then next time he's in town, meet up with him! Don't go trying to label everything and relax. You might meet someone else within three months you never know! I certainly wouldn't be hanging about pinning your hopes on a potential meet three months down the line!

RockAndHardPlace49 Mon 28-Dec-15 18:33:44

Cool, thank you.

I will see if we can get together before he leaves then. Good point about not trying to label everything.

Will just take it slow, then if one or both of us meets someone in the three months it's no big deal

I guess what I'm asking is, if we do stay in touch etc while he's away, it's okay to date other people right?

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