Maybe this isn't the right board bit don't want to clog chat anymore and feel a more straight answer may be gleaned from here
My DF by his choice has gone NC with us, he told us he was too busy to see us over the Christmas period (rubbish he expected us to go to him as always please see other thread recently on chat for more context).
No card nothing for DC over the Christmas given despite seeing family whom he could have passed this onto.
This family he did see he once again played the woe is mw pity card because of course we are in the wrong despite leaving the door open for him to tell us when best to visit, and has what appears bad mouthed to them about us and deleted us on fb (important in their world))
Here's the problem in pregnant, if this pregnancy continues and is successful (I don't know how to word that better so sorry if insensitive) then do we tell him?
If so how? We have family weddings up coming and always a family get together in the summer which I wont be missing just because he is acting like this.
I don't want him to hear via the grapevine of the family nor a surprise bump meeting.
His birthday is very soon I could give a relative a card to give to them to sign of bump maybe?
AIBU in how I'm approaching this? Is there a batter way? I don't want DC to ever think we have stopped the contact there should always be an open door for them as they aren't evil but they don't care they barely see him!
Sorry for long winded ranty message, hopefully you may be able to help me see straight
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MrsMum2011 · 28/12/2015 18:08
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