I have a 4 yo who is undergoing assessment for ASC. She has a multitude of sensory processing issues, hates physical contact, rarely communicates with anyone but me etc. Since I have started researching the condition, with a view of finding ways to help her, I've begun to consider that my 9 yo perhaps has some SN, too.
She doesn't play with toys, ever. She doesn't like to read or draw or do anything, really. She is very loud at home, she talks/sings/shouts constantly and constantly interrupts and talks over others. She is highly sensitive - she believes cartoons are real, has nightmares from fairytales, cannot comprehend jokes or sarcasm. She is incapable of considering the consequences of her actions and is genuinely surprised when things happen (I. e. She painted her hand to print, then touched the wall on the way to wash it and looked genuinely surprised it marked the wall.) She is very clingy and becomes emotional if I close the door while using the bathroom. Recently she's increasingly unhappy generally and will sit staring into space with a miserable face on her. She struggles with friendships - she has one she adores and is hysterical if she decides to play with someone else. She cannot cope with any change in routine and would be inconsolable if I said DP was going to take her to school instead of me, like usual. I actually arranged a home birth for my youngest with my eldest in mind because of how she would struggle if I suddenly disappeared to hospital.
I mentioned my concerns about her to DP and he seems to think that if I approached the GP about our eldest dd, it'd look like we're trying to play the system for money because our 4 yo receives DLA. But I figured that surely it's common that SN don't become apparent until later on, particularly once a siblings displays traits of having SN?
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to have started to realise my eldest could have SN since researching her siblings SN?
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