I went to deliver presents to some children in the family recently. I have not seen that side of the family for over a year. The reason I gave up any attempts to continue contact is because no matter what is done for that family unit by my side of the family we get chorus and verse about the non blood related person's family. They never spend Christmas with any of our side always being with the other side. This has been going on for years. I was getting to the point where I thought I was missing the family but when I went to deliver the presents it was the non related person who came to the door. I just held up the bag and said presents for the children. The bag was taken with the remark Aw Right! Not a thank you.
AIBU to expect to be treated with basic manners? I have given up any hope of my relative ever saying "What about my side and relatives" I know I cant make anyone feel what I am feeling but surely even the most average person could see that we should not have the other family pushed so far down our throats that we hate them without even any more than a few minutes of conversation with them over about 8 years.
So many people on MN go NC because of various reasons all we wanted was a fair share of spending time with children and Christmases together every so often and not never as has been the case here.
Given the ill mannered response to the presents I am better staying well away.
Just tell me if I am being unreasonable.
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TheBouquets · 25/12/2015 00:18
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