We are going to PIL's for Xmas. They are elderly and have full time carers, who we manage and pay for via DH. We have a toddler. We both work full time for our own businesses. DH is going to cook. He will also drive as I don't drive - we will hire a car. This is all background.
So:
I have bought presents for everyone including all Dh's family and his PiL's carers, as well as Dc and DH and my family of course
I have bought food for the entire duration
I have booked the car
I have taken time off work this week to look after dc as our childminder is on holiday
I have arranged double pay and holiday leave and extra cover for all the carers
Now, all of this is technically fine. BUT DH told me that he was sorting ALL of it - the presents for his family, the carers' holidays etc, the car, the food, half the childcare this week. Instead he has done NOTHiNG except tell me not to nag him when I remind him. This has gone on for weeks. I discovered it all this morning g and had to do everything with a poorly toddler in tow.
To top it off he fell asleep on the sofa after I asked him to help put dc to bed.
Aibu to be in an almighty strop and go on MN all night instead of have sex with him - which is what he is unbelievably angling for.
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Why is it all down to me?
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nicetoshare · 23/12/2015 20:29
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