I am not being unreasonable am I? I'm pretty confident I am not.
Got a friend who has health issues....I inow life is hard for her but currently I have no working car and she does.
I bought presents for both her children for Xmas and don't expect her to reciprocate because I know she can't and that's fine. DS has a large family and gets plenty for Xmas.
So I have no working car and nobody to get the presents over. ExH has arrived today as we are going to his parents for Xmas (we maintain an amicable relationship for DS). His car is now full of cases and we need to add pressies tomorrow....we've both just had a glass of wine as well.
So I get a message earlier from my friend "did we arrange to meet up today as I can't remember".
I replied that we hadn't but that if she wanted to pop over she could do so.....I was right in the middle of washing, packing, cleaning, sorting etc as we leave really early tomorrow due to a very long journey.
Then I get a message asking if we could go over there....and I said no as I was up to my eyes in stuff (didn't add...and she has a car and coukd come to me).
Now just had another message asking if we could drop the pressies round in the morning as she's bought bits to go with the present I have bought one of her children.
I've said no again as we are off by 6am so it isn't practical.
Now I am feeling guilty....argh......wtf is wrong with me? I couldn't get the pressies to her and just assumed we would meet up after Xmas and I'd give the pressies then.
She's right across the other side of town and I can't get there without two bus journeys so was sort of assuming she would come and collect or I would get them to her after I got back.
My fault as perhaps I should have made definite arrangements but honestly,...she has a car. She could nip over this evening still but won't or can't.
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If you want the kids pressies in time for Xmas day come and get them?
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Alfieisnoisy · 21/12/2015 20:53
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