My mum will be alone on Christmas Day evening. We have a little girl born a couple of months ago and this year we had said we would have a Christmas just me, LG and OH. This was before I realised that all of my other close family would be going away and due to pet/financial commitments, my mum wouldn't be going with them.
My mum has offered to come and cook us Christmas Dinner as I will be busy with LG, I have gratefully accepted.
I would very much like my mum and herpet to stay the night so that she doesn't have to drive home (1 hour away) and if she wants she can have a drink.
My OH was unhappy that my mum was coming over at all, despite her being there to help. He is also frustrated that my other family have gone away without consideration that she would be alone - they did invite her but she declined as couldn't afford/get anyone to look after her pet.
I have asked OH of she can spend the night and he has said no.
I'm feeling even more frustrated as we are having his whole family for over a week at New Year and when I have said a couple of days would be fine but over a week is too long, he has refused to explain this to his family.
AIBU to want my mum at mine for one night? I always thought Christmas was a time to be together with your loved ones.
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Carseat123 · 21/12/2015 17:46
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