Total disclaimer - I know many dads are excellent and up as much as mums but whilst bf it's normally women. Just think is beyond weird that a condition or set of conditions that cause such distress (in this house ten plus hrs sobbing yesterday and that's just ds!) and then also anguish for parents gets treated so often with sort of patronising "oh yeah it's awful but that's the case for months in afraid try some ineffective over the counter stuff" I know there's no definitive cure and must be borderline impossible to research babies meds as can't do control groups etc but feel that the whole approach even from lovely female gp quite condescending. Would like to have a proper approach like "right, there are different things that work for different people we will try this for this weeks then this then this" to make it feel a bit more taken seriously instead of head being cocked to side and no real questions about say length / time of crying, nature of it, other symptoms like viniting, excess saliva, grunting, nappy patterns etc - because there are lots of different overlapping reasons for this distress and some treatments do work for some so surely we should be able to take a more methodical less defeatist approach???!! Maybe v unfair but just don't think hoards of fathers going in however sleep deprived would be this easily dismissed somehow. Probably bollocks. Not slept in weeks :)
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To think if it affected men more there would be more effective treatment for colic or reflux etc?!!!
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Nervouswithnewborn · 21/12/2015 09:16
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