So I will be 37 weeks on Christmas day. DM has just made a comment about 'poor DH not drinking over Christmas' and I laughed and said that I've said its fine for him to drink. DM thinks I'm being very unreasonable in case I need to go to hospital and thinks DH is also unreasonable for not staying sober anyway.
Here are the relevant facts:
I will be 37 weeks with no history of early labour (previous were at 40 weeks and induced at 39)
I have a low placenta so will be needing a c/s - this means any hint of labour and I need to go straight in. I am sure I will be able to drive myself in this situation - I could certainly have driven for a good few hours in both my previous early labours. I wouldn't be waiting to be sure it was labour, any hint and I would go in to be checked.
I have previously been in for bleeding. Again if it is at the level the previous bleeds have been at (very small amount) I would be absolutely fine to drive myself.
If I suddenly go into very fast active labour (highly unlikely) or have a big bleed (possible) I would need an ambulance anyway so DH could come with me in the ambulance.
DH doesn't get 'drunk' - you would never know he had been drinking to talk to him but he would certainly have drunk more than the legal driving limit (we personally have a zero tolerance policy on drinking and driving) so he would be completely fine to make any decisions needed at hospital etc.
We will be with my parents who will be having the DC while I'm in hospital anyway so all their overnight stuff etc will already be there and my notes and hospital bag will be in the car.
I feel it would be a shame for DH not to enjoy a few glasses of bubbles etc through the Christmas week when the chance of him actually needing to drive me are so slim and I feel I could drive myself anyway.
so AIBU to say DH can drink considering all of the above?
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To let DH drink over Christmas when I'm 37 weeks PG?
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RainWildsGirl · 20/12/2015 17:07
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