My DH died in March and up until recently I wasn't going to put up a tree, but changed my mind for the sake of the grown up kids. The youngest is 20 but has SN and has been asking for a tree, so I'm going to try to make it as nice a Christmas as I can. Today I bought some tree baubles that you can open and put things into, so I had planned on getting the kids to write messages to my DH.
My dh's siblings are very supportive of me and the kids, generally, so I had wondered if it would be appropriate to ask them to each write a message and place it in a bauble each? I would then like them to give me the baubles, which would not be opened, to put on our tree. That's the bit I'm worried about. Would you be offended if someone asked you to write a message to a lost loved one, then entrust it to them or would you expect to keep it for your tree? should let them put the bauble on their tree or
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To ask my sils/bils to write a Christmas wish to my husband.
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StayWithMe · 19/12/2015 20:33
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