not sure if this would be unreasonable or not wanted to know what others think before i say anything.
my bf has invited me and all the kids to his house for dinner. its a pre xmas meal as we cant spend xmas together. hes doing the full xmas dinner with puddings and sweets and stuff like that. and he seems really excited about it.
so its my lot and his 3 adult children and his grandson and his daughters bf.
The thing is i gave my 18 year old dd the choice. at first she said she would come as she had no plans. she was meant to meet a friend today but he counciled and said tomorrow instead and she agreed. so now shes not coming. I really want her to come as its both of our familys getting together and he and his daughters have gone to alot of trouble. and it would be nice in general if we were all together. shes of college for 2 weeks. and can do what she wants and can met her friends during that time. the only time i want her to be with family is tomorrow and xmas day. But i gave her the choice would it be out of order if i said to her that she has to come and to see the friend another day. the friend was not well today i cant see how he can know he will be ok tomorrow. but i did give her the choice. can i back track on it.
I know shes an adult. but to be honest that wont even enter her head to say.
so do i push her into coming. she would be fine once we are there as she gets on well with her daughters and they are a laugh.
or do i just leave it and let her meet her friend.
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ghostspirit · 19/12/2015 20:20
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