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does it ever go

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wheniwonder · 18/12/2015 00:31

when will i stop loving my ex?

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Flossyfloof · 18/12/2015 00:33

Yes, it goes, sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. How long?

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Mmmmcake123 · 18/12/2015 00:35

It will only go if you really fight it and focus on other positive things in your life. Create new interests if you need to xxxx

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MrsTerryPratchett · 18/12/2015 00:36

Sometimes it takes ages and sometimes it's lightening quick.

There's love that's warm and nice and there's yearning and aching, which is horrible.

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jeavcike · 18/12/2015 04:10

It does go, yes. There's no time scale unfortunately so we can't really answer that for you. You will, at some point, stop loving him. Or at least, that love will become more like a feeling of fondness. You won't realise it but there will come a point when you won't think about him or your lost relationship all the time. One day, it'll get to dinnertime or whatever and you'll think, "I haven't thought about him yet today," and that's when you know you're getting over the worst.

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Moopsboopsmum · 18/12/2015 04:44

It's never gone for me. It's 8 years since I was last with him. Twenty years this coming September since we met. I will love that man until the day I die. Sorry.

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wheniwonder · 27/12/2015 13:10

tragically I am divorced and remarried.

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