I’m throwing this open to the esteemed Mumsnet jury. AIBU or is it my own bloody fault?
I like to be organised. I like to have Christmas gifts sorted early so I can sit back and relax knowing that it’s taken care of. Some people like the last minute mad dash but I’m a bit too anxious for that. DH and I agreed a budget for each others Christmas presents. But when I asked him for the money he decided that he didn’t want anything. So he wasn’t going to give me any money. Problem is, I’d already bought him something and was relying on him giving me that money back! I do have him two small presents and he says ‘That’s enough’ and he has also requested something else small that I don’t have the money for because of buying him the other thing.
I know that it is my own fault for buying the present before I physically had the money but we live in the middle of nowhere quite a remote area and I was recently in the city for an antenatal appointment so I thought I’d take advantage of that and get his present. I doubt I’ll even be able to return it now as the box has a small rip
AIBU to be quite annoyed that he changed his mind? There’s also the fact that I wanted to get him a nice present. Not sure what to do now. If I give him the present he’ll (naturally) wonder where the money came from. I don’t want him giving out to me on Christmas morning for buying him a present. I could keep it for his birthday but that’s not til May. So far I’ve just been asking him if he’s sure he doesn’t want a present and hoping he changes his mind back. Better ideas welcome.
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TathitiPete · 15/12/2015 22:01
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