Dd has just shown me the gold heelys she hopes to get for Xmas. They're the same ones my younger daughter wanted a few weeks ago for her birthday. They weren't suitable - she's not ready for laces and they're one wheel. Older daughter would be fine with them but I was going to get a different pair to avoid upsetting my other daughter. She immediately got upset tonight and said they were the ones she loved as they are prettier. So should I get eldest daughter a second choice to avoid upset? My eldest daughter is already getting a smart phone for Christmas (relatives) which my younger daughter has asked for but is too young for. I just don't want her upset on Xmas day when she sees her sister getting the gold heelys she wanted and a proper phone. Dh tells me that's not a reason not to get what my other daughter wants - they're just different ages. But I feel bad already. AIBU?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To avoid buying dd something because other dd would be upset?
43 replies
startingallover · 09/12/2015 18:45
OP posts:
Newsletters you might like
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.