Long story short, DH is a farmer. Following all the rain, he's FINALLY managed to organise the contractor to come and forage the maize today. He explained to the contractor last night that he would meet him at the farm buildings away from the house, at stupid o'clock very early, rather than have the contractor come into the house yard, knock the back door, set off all (6) of the dogs and waking up 11 month old DD who has been ill and and is now sleeping through the night again after recovering.
DH also needed time to catch the farm cats and crate them so that they were out of the way of the large agricultural machinery (They are very spooky with strangers, so need to be handled quietly). Agricultural contractor agreed protocol with DH, everyone happy.
So at 4.30am, You can imagine that I was very surprised to hear banging on the back door (DH had been out since 4am feeding and crating the cats), the dogs going mental in the yard, to see lots of lights from huge agricultural vehicles. Cue DD awake and screaming, me having to get out of bed the HORRORS! 4 hours before DD normally wakes up, which means that she was difficult to resettle and will knacker her schedule today, because she's been startled awake at a ridiculous hour.
It appears that the contractor had FORGOTTEN to tell his assistant to meet DH up at our sheds, rather than at the house and so he was banging the door for DH to give him the keys to the yard. I was quite abrupt when I got to the back door and didn't mince my words.
Agricultural contractor has called me a harridan to DH and accused DH of being under the thumb. DH thinks it's hilarious that the contractor thinks "I'm scary wife", although he has had a go at the contractor about waking DD when he'd made specific alternative arrangements and is pissed off about the lack of communication.
Me, I'd quite happily castrate the contractor using castration rings that get put on the lambs (and threatened to do so). DH reckons I need to calm down a bit (and made me a coffee). In the interests of full disclosure, I got DD back to sleep reasonably quickly and DH managed to catch the cats to crate them for their own safety today. I however have lost 2 1/2 hours sleep and am not happy.
Should I castrate the both the Agricultural contractor, his assistant, or both? Or let them off? DH has escaped my wrath because he had the sense to apologise (even though it wasn't really his fault) and make me a coffee!
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AIBU to castrate the agricultural contractor and his assistant?
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QuietTiger · 09/12/2015 08:14
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